Seduce an influencer: top time!

You watch her and follow her on social media. You dream of being by her side and sharing her daily life as a star…

Madintouch investigates the world of influenceuses, these women who make you dream on social networks and who have become real fashion icons in the Internet age!

It's time to take action and make your deepest dream come true: seduce a beautiful popular girl.

Our tailor-made coaching will allow you to flourish with the influential women of your choice. But be careful, our goal is not necessarily to make you meet theinfluencer Nabilla in person (we agree?)🙂.

Ready to change your life? 

Step 1: Know how to choose the right influencer

But what is a good influencer?

An influencer is not just any woman. She is famous on social media and inspires others by sharing her daily life. She is a true internet star.

But be careful, they are not all alike!

There are influencers who inspire young people in their clothing style, others who guide women in their lifestyle, and still others who advise men in their style of flirting.

In general, we can say that an influencer is a woman who encourages others to love and share her values ​​and ideas, by making people talk about her.

Step 2: Find THE perfect influencer for you 

If you are looking for an influencer, it is because you want to be inspired, you expect from this woman a new idea that will make you want to change something in your life. We will give you advice on how to choose the right influencer, the one who will suit you and who will inspire you on a daily basis. Let's look at the different basic criteria together.

The basic criteria for seducing the ideal influencer

There are 5 basic criteria that you must respect to choose the perfect influencer for you:

• His notoriety

• His charm

• His sympathy

• His closeness to you

• His competences

We're going to look at these 5 criteria in depth and we're also going to give you tips for finding the right influencer.

Social networks, the preferred place for influencers

How to Seduce an Influencer on Instagram, Facebook, TikTok? Take your pick!

Have you already seen accounts that you like? Are they influencers? If they are already known, they certainly have a large number of followers and likes. They have all the more impact on you and your desire to know them. 😉

If you already have accounts that you like, you can ask their followers which account might be interesting for you. You can follow their advice and you can discover new accounts. This is the snowball effect.

If you can't find an account that appeals to you, you can get inspiration from those around you. Look at and analyze the different Facebook profiles of your friends, your parents, your cousins, your grandparents. Look at their photos and their publications. There are certainly people who seem interesting to you. You can also ask your social circle if they know any influencers and ask them if they are really interesting to you.

Can't find what you're looking for on social media?

Don't panic, you can still get information from the People press or the web (Google is your best ally for this 😉) to select the rare gem. 

Chef's tip:

If you really want to discover influencers, you can go to the Followerwonk platform. If you have already found accounts, you can compare their number of followers and likes to know which accounts are the most influential for you.

Okay, you know where to look, but how do you go about following the accounts that are influential?

Once you have found the accounts that interest you the most, you can simply start following them. There are several ways to do this. First, you can click on the add to my contacts button. You can also follow them using apps like Hootsuite or Tweetdeck.

Something else ?

You can also follow the accounts you like on Tinder, LinkedIn, Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, Facebook and Foursquare. There are apps that help you find influencers based on your interests, profession or age. Easy, right? 😉

In order to follow influential women well, you need to know WHEN to follow them. There are several possibilities to do this. For example, you can follow them every day, every two days, every four days or every week. It also depends on your schedule and the number of influencers you want to follow.

Step 3: Learn how to get an influencer’s attention

There are several ways to get the attention of a trending influencer or one looking to become an influencer.

• The fastest way is to contact her via Instagram directly by message. You have to take into account that she has to see your message and she doesn't always have time to do it. That's why it's also important not to write to her too often or you'll come across as unpleasant.
• But, you can also send him an email. If you don't know him, you can use Google to find the precious sesame! If you want to get an answer, it is important not to say too much in your writing. Simply describe your strengths and explain what you are looking for. It may seem a little difficult, but that's how it works. 😅
• You can also contact her via Twitter or Facebook.
• Or even post a message on his blog.

But be careful, these are just ways to get her attention. You must then use your arguments to convince her to contact you.

These are not miracle recipes, but all these tips put together will help you meet the perfect influencer for you!

Step 4: Know the techniques for establishing contact and seducing an influencer

You have her email, you sent her a message, now it's time to get in touch with her. This is the moment when you have to use all your techniques to seduce her!

You have to remember that influencers are people like you and me. They have lives and activities. They are busy. So you have to write in simple language and always keep in mind that they don't have all the time they need.

So you must first introduce yourself in a short and concise manner:

• Why are you in contact with her?

• What do you want?

• What do you have to offer him?

After these three questions, you must also write the reason why you want to have contact with her. She must be able to know you and know who you are, what you do and why you want to have her as a partner.

You also need to make sure you are clear about what you want. You should not leave any room for interpretation. 😉

What are some good ways to connect with an influencer?

In this step, it is time to think about the right ways to stay in touch with an influencer. In fact, it is difficult to know exactly the best ways, because there are many of them and influencers have different types of preferences.

What are the easiest ways to get in touch with her?

Here are some of the easiest ways to get in touch with an influencer:

• Create a blog or a Facebook page

This is one of the easiest and most effective ways to communicate with an influencer. All you have to do is create a blog or a Facebook page and share her posts. She might contact you to see how she can help you out for example.

• Follow and share your social media posts

Sharing your content on your social networks is another way to make yourself indispensable to the new chosen one of your heart. This way is more subtle, but you have to be very careful not to come across as a spammer. 🥴

Following and sharing his posts on social media is another way to approach him. 

• Respond to comments

Replying to comments is one way to communicate with an influencer, however, be honest with yourself and don't reply to comments with the intention of asking her to help you make money. She won't help you provide a service if she's not interested in your product or service.

• Create collaborations

Collaboration can be an interesting way to advance your goals. Indeed, you can offer to collaborate on a project so that she can talk about your product or service and thus make it known. It is possible that the collaboration works very well and that she is ready to recommend your product or service to her subscribers.

Final step: our coaching to learn how to seduce an influencer

You now have a good idea of ​​how to reach an influencer and, above all, seduce her.

Here are some more tips to make your task easier!

• Determine your goal with Gwen or me

The first thing you need to do is determine your goal. Do you plan to maintain a relationship with her? Do you intend to get her help in promoting your product or service? Or do you simply want to seduce her? When asking this question, you can choose to have several goals.

Once you have defined your primary goal, you then need to determine what you really want to get from her. Before you write to her, ask yourself what you really want. This question will help you select the best way to write to her so that the final goal is achieved.

• Choose your method of seduction

Once you have identified your goal, you need to know how you are going to seduce her. As we have seen above, seduction has several components, and there is no reason why you should not use all the tools at your disposal to achieve your goal.

The first step is to clarify what you want to do and what methods you are going to use. You can start by using the tools presented in Chapter 2 to choose how you are going to seduce her. Then, you will need to decide how to use these tools.

• Suggest an attack strategy

Once you have selected your goal, the means to achieve it and the tools you intend to use, it is time to decide how you are going to use them. The strategy is the plan of attack that you will put in place in your seduction process!

We have seen that seduction has several components, and that each component has its own strategy. The strategy must therefore be defined for each of the components of seduction. For example, if it is the physical approach that will be used to begin to get closer to her, then you must evaluate how you are going to go about approaching her physically.

 

Seducing an influencer and changing your life involves several essential steps. We have seen several, but I won't hide from you that being supported in this project can really change the situation... and your results!

To train for our tailor-made coaching, you will first need to book a date in our calendar for a short 15-minute interview. We will study your background and define your seduction strategy. The interview costs 30 euros.

Seducing and meeting the most beautiful women on social networks involves a real investment, but for THE guarantee of a winning return, it's priceless, right?