“Forget the boring “Hey, how are you?” and get ready to revolutionize your Tinder conversation starters! Spark your matches’ curiosity with original and unexpected approaches. In this article, we reveal the secrets to captivating your target’s attention from the very first words exchanged.
Get inspired and embrace your creativity to make your conversation starters as unique as they are memorable.
Understand who you are talking to and adapt your speech
It is important to understand the person before taking the first step!
Take into account important details about his/her photos, description, and tastes. With this data, you could start the discussion around these indications, to be in line with his/her personality and what he/she likes in particular.
How to start a Tinder conversation in a humorous tone?
If he or she seems friendly and fun-loving, don't hesitate to start the conversation with a humorous tone.
A little teasing comment about their t-shirt can make them smile! Be careful: when we talk about teasing, we avoid comments about the person's physique. This could be hurtful to him or her, and make you lose your chances of perhaps meeting a beautiful person. Be funny without being mean, and by remaining polite, if you are the joker type.
Also practice humor based on his interests, or small compliments like:
- “You like water? Then you already like 70% of me!”
- "Your eyes are as beautiful as the Indian Ocean. And I'm one of those guys who loves swimming."
How to start a Tinder conversation when you're shy?
For the more introverted among you, it is still possible to start a conversation without being boring!
There are several ways to start a conversation when you are shy, here are some examples:
- Using Funny GIFs will allow you to express your feelings, without writing anything…
- Asking questions will allow you to start a conversation topic, for example: "I love the photo with your dog! What's his name?" or "I saw that your favorite series is Breaking Bad, do you recommend it?"
Don't lose sight of the primary objective: seduction
Warning: yes, you are here to charm the other, however this method of approach can be detrimental to you depending on the person.
To remain seductive without being too “heavy”, we advise you to stick to small compliments like:
“You have a nice smile” or “You have beautiful eyes!”
Stay respectful even if you're looking for a one-night stand.
We can never say it enough, but as on all dating sites or during a sexual relationship, It is important to respect your partner, even in a virtual setting. Words toward your conversation partner can be hurtful.
Gentlemen, we can never tell you this enough, but taking a girl for a piece of meat even if you are only looking for a one-night stand is a NO!
If you don't want to end up in the "delivered messages", "seen" or worse banned from Tinder, we recommend that you be cordial and respectful!
Avoid Long Messages on Tinder From the Start
"Oh my, the heavy one"
Nobody wants to receive this message type ! So for the first message, don't start telling your life story, or be too detailed in your approach. Even if the boy or girl asks you a question about yourself and there is a lot to say.
Instead, leave some suspense, create some mystery for a future topic of conversation. You could also approach this future topic face to face rather than virtually…
However, if he or she allows himself or herself to make long sentences, and that is also your style, you can allow yourself to let loose!
No copy and paste!
We can't say it enough! Don't copy and paste to start your conversation. We are speaking to you from experience: you are not going to get the answers you expected...
The sentences too generic flirting may make some people laugh.
However, keep in mind that everyone prefers to have a personalized message, which talks about one of his or her photos or the information he or she has mentioned in his or her BIO. This will show him or her your interest in his or her profile.
Starting a conversation on Tinder: easy when you know where to start!
Starting a conversation with a stranger is never easy, especially when it comes to Tinder or any other dating site. The important thing on Tinder is to listen to the other person and make the person in front of you feel interested in you! Otherwise, you risk getting quickly banish by the person in front or the application…
With our tips, we can guarantee you phenomenal success on Tinder. Get started now and don't be afraid of failure: it happens to even the best!
FAQ
How to say Hello on Tinder?
If you don't already know how to say hello to your target audience, you're off to a bad start!
To help you, don't hesitate to start the conversation with an open question. Analyze his/her profile to ask questions that he/she would be more likely to answer: “I saw that you liked the movie The Great Gatsby, what is your favorite scene?”
How to break the ice on Tinder?
To break the ice on Tinder, nothing beats humor! Use your acting skills to attract or even make your interlocutor smile! You know what they say: A woman who laughs is half in bed.
How to have an interesting conversation on Tinder?
Our advice for an interesting conversation on Tinder with your potential future partner is to be attentive and curious about the person you are conversing with.
Remember to be yourself, and above all DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT: HAVE FUN!