What is a dominant woman?

Le BDSM is a universe where pleasure and pain mix. For this reason, no one can enter this environment without being a fan of pleasure through pain. BDSM relationships present different scenarios. Indeed, just like men, women are also likely to play the role of dominatrix, as long as their partner consents. In this article, you can find out everything about female dominance and how to easily find a dominatrix.

What is BDSM?

BDSM is an acronym that literally stands for Bondage and Discipline (BD), Submission and domination (for S commonly called Ds) and sadomasochism (M). Bondage is a practice which consists of immobilizing a sexual partner using accessories such as handcuffs or chains.

Discipline is the obedience of a partner to the orders of his master. It is a psychological restriction supported by rules and sanctions to control the movements of a partner, said to be dominated.

As for submission and domination, they refer to the desire of a partner to be dominated by one or more partners for an erotic and sexual purpose. The latter finds pleasure in being piloted by another person by giving in to all his desires. In addition, sadomasochism is derived from the expressions sadism and masochism.

Sadism is when a person finds pleasure in inflicting physical or moral suffering on another. Masochism is also the search for pleasure in pain, but through complacency. That is to say, a masochistic person finds pleasure when he undergoes physical or moral suffering.

From these explanations, we can conclude that BDSM includes a set of sexual and erotic practices. It is based on constraint, pain, erotic humiliation and sexual fantasies.

It is used by people who are imbued with pleasure through pain. One of the people is a dominant and the other is a submissive. For this purpose, rules and sanctions are previously defined and accepted by the stakeholders.

BDSM is, above all, a sexual and erotic activity, both contractual and consenting. The sexual domination should not be synonymous with suffering for the stakeholders. It is an agreement between two stakeholders and should result in the carnal satisfaction of each of them.

Definition of a dominant woman in BDSM and her role

BDSM is practiced by both men and women. Both men and women are likely to find themselves as dominant or submissive. Thus, a dominant woman, also called an SM mistress, is a woman who finds pleasure in dominating her partner during a power relationship.

The mere idea of ​​being the sponsor is exciting to the latter. The woman Moneyslave Dominatrix therefore takes pleasure in embodying the role of dominant. However, it is not enough to be in control to effectively enjoy one's power of domination.

The ultimate role of a dominant woman is to make her submissive at her mercy. She must impose practices on her slave who must carry them out. The dominant woman can impose for example on her submissive the adoption of certain sexual positions or the wearing of an outfit that she would have chosen to his taste.

La dominatrix can also choose how she decides to satisfy her partner and to the degree she wants. However, it should be noted that it is not about mistreating her submissive. Rather, it is about the SM mistress having authority over the submissive and controlling him.

In this sex game, the dominant woman takes the upper hand, which allows her to feel powerful and authoritarian. It is this feeling of domination and seeing her subject obey her orders that allows her to reach the desired level of pleasure.

For the pleasure of the stakeholders, the SM dominatrix must know how to behave appropriately. There is no point in coming out traumatized or being in a state of shock after a BDSM session.

Although BDSM is based on pain, it also combines pleasure. Partners must enjoy pain or suffer from pleasure.

What accessories can a dominant woman use?

There are a variety of accessories that a domina can use. These are essential accessories that a female dominatrix (beginner or experienced) can use without breaking the bank. A beginner can use the following accessories:

The candle and the candlestick refer to the use of its wax and the practice called candlestick reading.

Candlestick reading is a foreplay that allows the dominant woman to satisfy herself with a good dose of submission from her partner. It is the submissive who is required to keep the candle and allows the dominatrix to read in the evening at the wake.

As for the candle, it is useful to provide wax that the dominatrix pours in droplets on the quivering body of her partner. This practice provides a torrid and intimate atmosphere in terms of erotic games. Rest assured, the candles used in BDSM are made from medical cosmetic wax and are low temperature.

So you don't risk an extreme burn. We also note the scarf (silk or satin) or the leather mask. Their role is to hide the face of the submissive. This practice further accentuates the feeling of dominance. The dominatrix thus enjoys the voyeurism and vulnerability of her partner.

Handcuffs and restraints allow the dominatrix to make her submissive her prisoner. She feels the power to treat him as she pleases, which gives free rein to her fantasies. Depending on the intensity of the dominance and the scenario to be carried out, the domina has the choice between metal handcuffs or metal or leather restraints.

Steel handcuffs are used for “police-style interrogations”. Metal or leather restraints are generally used for medieval ecstasy fanatics. These items are available in several models and provide greater comfort.

In addition, the dominatrix can use any other whipping equipment such as whip straps, riding crop and cat o' nine tails. These objects are used to punish and frighten the submissive. The latter finds pleasure in offering burning and stinging caresses using these instruments.

Moreover, in addition to the above-mentioned objects, the experienced dominatrix uses the gag that allows to muffle the moans of her slave. It is an adjustable leather strap that exists in different forms with a ball in the middle.

It allows to humiliate the submissive and to deprive him of speech. The experienced dominatrix also uses the breast or nipple clamp (for men). Indeed, these areas are very sensitive and quickly reactive.

Other accessories that an experienced SM Mistress can use are the easels, the shackles, the electro-stimulators, the collar, the chastity belt, the pearl rosary, the hood. To spice up the sex life, the BDSM accessories are made of soft materials that are not likely to hurt or injure.

What are the BDSM practices that a dominant woman can practice?

The practices or games that a dominant woman can use in BDSM are multiple. The most widespread practices when we talk about BDSM are mainly flagellation and spanking. Flagellation is the act of whipping one's partner.

It is a strong symbol of domination. It is practiced in such a way as not to hurt. The blows are then tender and light. Spankings, for their part, represent blows on the buttocks. Spankings can be given with bare hands or with the help of instruments such as straps, the fourt, the riding crop, or even the martinet.

Apart from these popular practices, there is also erotic asphyxiation which consists of depriving oneself or the submissive of oxygen in order to derive pleasure from it. Cock and ball torture concerns the abuse inflicted on the male genitals.

For example, it can involve kicking the man's testicles. This practice is the most widespread and is called tamakeri. The dominatrix can practice emetophilia, which is a practice outside the margins. It consists of making oneself vomit on or vomiting on one's submissive.

Another practice is sodutere which consists of inserting an object into the urethra of a partner (when BDSM is practiced between women). This helps to find the "G" spot of pleasure. The domina can force her partner to introduce for example a hat needle into her urethra.

Furthermore, there are mixed games (practiced by both the dominatrix and the submissive) such as trimming and shaving the hair, pubic area, armpits and even the rest of the body.

Also, we note among other mixed games, the wearing of restrictive clothing, neck braces or corsets. We also note mummification, confinement, blackmail, theatrical rape, trampling of the subject's body, chastity, exhibition, etc.

Role-playing games are also practiced. There are service games (where the submissive is the servant of the dominatrix), the adoration of the sadomasochistic mistress, the transformation of the submissive into an animal. For this last point, the submissive plays the role of a dog or a cat for example.

We also note medical role-playing (body search, endocrine therapy for example), pony play, a kidnapping scene, military or police play. Let us remember that BDSM practices are sometimes trying and very humiliating.

It is therefore important that the stakeholders are willing and that they demonstrate open-mindedness and “good judgment”.

Dominant Woman in BDSM: Why is it a Fantasy for Many Submissive Men?

The dominance of men in bed by a woman is an unproclaimed fact. Many men harbor the desire to be controlled during sexual intercourse by a woman.

This is the whole point of men turning to sado-maso mistresses. It is noted that the men who frequent these mistresses are mostly executives and company directors.

They claim to be tired or bored with their position of authority in the service. They want to be dominated and let go to change their routine.

Another factor would be the clothing of the BDSM mistresses which is particularly exciting. Fashionable clothing is characterized by leather or latex which are materials that show authority. The shine that leather and clothing leave do not leave these men indifferent.

Moreover, the professionalism of the sado-maso mistresses is also captivating for these gentlemen. They are innovative in terms of naked BDSM practices and show patience and investment in understanding the needs of their subjects.

Simply meet a dominant woman

To easily find a dominant woman, we advise you to visit SM and BDSM community sites. They are well organized and offer you all the ideal games for your greatest pleasure. However, you must be careful not to choose unhealthy sites, because they do exist.

To help you in your choice, we suggest you consult our link to the dominatrix site Madintouch at the bottom of the page and possibly, the SM mistress classifieds on rencontretadominatrice.fr. This site has amateur and experienced dominatrices who are looking for a man for their sadistic pleasure. All you have to do is register and contact the profile of your choice.

You will have at your disposal a member area, a private messaging service and a search engine to find all the dominas who live near you.

Outside of websites, SM mistresses are present in some clubs. For example, it is wise for a novice to start in these clubs to better familiarize himself with this universe and thus understand his desires and fantasies...